BREAKUP...how to handle this painful situation???

many of us fall in love with a guy, he takes our BREATH AWAY, makes us feels like a PRINCESS, makes us feel we're worth than a DIAMOND and then after all we've been through............................suddenly.............HE LEFT.......he said "IT'S OVER" a simple but but strong enough to break our heart apart........ :( right???? and at the same time we pray to GOD and hope that this is just a DREAM and we'll wake up from this NIGHTMARE..........have u ever felt this way???? if u don't ur luckiest person in the world.... ;) Well many off my frens ask me 4 an advise on how to overcome this painful situation.....so this is my answers ^^hope it helps others as well

Breakup is painful but to accept the fact that WE STILL LOVE HIM is MUCH WORSE!!!
It's natural....if u said u can forget a person just in a DAY  u are crazy....that is impossible...."TO FORGET SOMEONE THAT WE LOVE IS LIKE TO REMEMBER THE NAME OF  A PERSON THAT WE NEVER KNEW AT ALL" it's hard right...............remember....once ur break up with someone don't hold yourself ... don't control yourself... PLEASE CRY AND LET ALL YOUR PAIN AWAY....if it's not all it's okay to let go a bit.......by crying u wont hide anything inside your head......let the pain away.....CRY and SCREAM YOUR LUNGS OUT......then tell someone that u trust about what just happened,,,,it will at least give you a little relieve.. this is 100% true....Sharing problems can make ur heads less fussy!! 

 After u feel a lil bit relieve.....just think by yourself.....DO U STILL WANT HIM??????????
if u want him....just try to persuade him once again....u can use any way to attract or persuade him...
for example, MAKE A SPECIAL CARD TO SAY SORRY TO HIM...this is very rare....not everybody did this..so this time u need to be an extraordinary... just a lil bit :)

and make anything else such as ORIGAMI, put it in a JAR and on each origami write down all your memories from 1st time u met and so on.....at the same time try to TEXT HIM...if u afraid to CALL HIM....well i'm afraid...hahahah if it doesnt work....wait and try again next time.......

 

 try to make yourself the busiest person in the world. MAKE YOURSELF AS BUSY AS POSSIBLE.....hang out with your friend instead of just dreamy and cry at the corner.....u'r better than this!! just go out, HAVE SOME FUN.....fill ur day with activities.....play sports, play video game, shopping learn to cook and what ever u want!!! this may help u...i swear...

don't forget!!!! LISTEN TO SONGS CAN MAKE U STRONG....also read a lot of quotes can clear up ur mind.......it's okay if it's only for a bit.....listen to song that can be an inspiration to you....

a song that can make u strong, a song that can give u strength...of coz it's help ^^
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if all your effort to make him back is useless....try something.........LET HIM GO! just let him go....

i know this sounds scary but it's the best choice u have...........maybe if u keeps contacting him he'll feels like ur not his girlfriend anymore but u r still there...so there's no chance for him to miss u,

DON'T CONTACT HIM ANYMORE...ACT LIKE U DON'T CARE....sometimes this might work...
coz after a while he realize that he miss u all he'll be bacj,,,,if he don't u gonna have to say GOODBYE to him.............................
WE CAN STILL LOVE SOMEONE FROM FAR AWAY, LOVE IS NOT NECESSARY BEEN OWNED, WE CAN STILL LOVE HIM ALTHOUGH AT TIME TIME HE'S HAPPY WITH SOMEBODY ELSE.